By Dr. Barkat Ali Khan

It is a human tragedy that human beings do not originate correction with themselves. In every case and at all costs, the opposition is wrong. One will notice a single mistake in others but will ignore hundreds of mistakes within himself.

 
Once, a friend was delivering a lecture on reforms, emphasizing patience, and saying pardon is religious obligation.

Coincidentally, one day, I saw that the narrator was fighting with someone. I approached and said be patient, replied the question of patience could not arise, I requested to forgive, but the motive looked at it with a fool, saying that there was no pardon page in my book. Real life is one as narrated, that is, the best of the people is the one who benefits others.

Here, profit does not mean only wealth but actually a profit of good behaviour. It is profitable to meet someone well, and it is profitable to guide others in the right direction.

We have fallen to the extreme of selfishness that our wrong is right and right of others feel wrong. Real life is to be helpful to others.

My personal observation is, the real happiness that makes someone feel happy. We can help others, for example, strengthen someone morally, help someone's religious or western education, and face every difficulty of life wisely.

We can guide our relatives and neighbours on the right path. As human beings, we can provide shelter to others. We can resolve conflicts between people.

Here, I want to describe some of the qualities that should be in general to be a helper:
1. Demonstrate sympathy and understanding for the struggle of others.
2. Be prepared to share your time, resources, and knowledge freely.
3. Trying to encourage and help when needed.4.  Bring innovation and constructive perspective in matters.
5. Pay actively focusing on the needs and concerns of others.
6. Practising promises and being reliable. 
Here, I want to explain some practical steps which includes: Volunteering time in a local charitable or community organization, donating for reasons that are compatible with personal values, providing assistance to neighbours or needy colleagues, the guidance of others and practising active listening and providing support, promoting respect for diversity.
Words only guide and teach you; it's your determination to act and show plans.